To:

The future guy who ends up with her. If.. or if it isn't.. me.

Dear _______,

Hi there. Um, I see you take an interest in this girl. I'm happy for you, to me, she was the best person I have met in my entire life. I've had a previous "relationship", you could say, with that girl.

And yeah, it has taught me so much, she was the one that boosted my relationship with God. When I met her, she was on fire for God. When I met her, she had recently broken up with her previous boyfriend. Well, not really, because I had met her before that, but I haven't "met" met her until the 10th of November 2008. The day I snuck in with John to Vista, and talked to her cause I saw her at REVO. I knew what she did every single day from the 10th of November 2008, to this day, 3rd November 2009.

When I met this girl at REVO, I thought she was "out of my league," just cause she was super outgoing. I felt like she was cool, and I wasn't. But.. I got to know much more about her. And I still am..

I've been through a lot with her, for almost a year now. If it's God's will to do so, then there is much more that we are going to go through. I'm happy that you met her, really.

First of all, if you're considering that you're mature about being in a relationship with her, I advise you, think again. Are you a saved person? Is Jesus Christ your Lord and savior? Are you willing to put God first, before her? It's more than a matter of saying, yeah. And I must admit, I failed, cause I ran to her before God at times..

Are you willing to love her unconditionally? No matter what? The way God tells us to love one another?

Always be grateful when you're with her, when you talk to her, when you see her. Because those opportunities are limited, make the most of it.

Put away your lustful desires when you see her. She's a beautiful woman, which makes you even luckier, but lust is just a temporary pleasure. Let love be your ultimate goal.

Write her notes, she likes them. Make sure they're long, with good quality.

Play Pokemon with her. Haha.

Talk to her at night, but only if she absolutely can. And don't sleep deprive her, plan when you'll talk to her. Do not get her in trouble. If you do these things, that's a sign of love.

When you do talk to her, be kind. Gentle. Patient. Not every conversation is one that goes your way, and don't be selfish and argue. I fell short of this at times too. But I recall talking to her, and I remember the feeling when you know that she is smiling, even when you cannot see her.

Sometimes, she easily falls asleep when you're on the phone with her. That's fine, she needs sleep. Don't get mad, but instead, ask if she would like to fall asleep on the phone. When she does, tell her that you love her, only when you really mean it.

Love her, unconditionally. When she gives a lot to you. When she pays attention to you. When she smiles at the sight of you. When she offers a gift, or a favor.

Love her, unconditionally. When she's confused. When she doesn't pay attention to you. When something's bothering her. When she's arguing, or upset with you.

Do not abuse the kissing card. It'll lead you to your youthful desires, wanting to do more than just kiss. Avoid that, if you really do care for her. When you do kiss her, be sure to let you know that this leaves her heart vulnerable, because she's sharing it with you through a kiss. Don't take advantage of that.

Buy her a Yoshi doll, but only when she's allowed to have one.

Be her best friend. When she needs someone to vent to, be there. Don't be impatient, or "bored" with what she has to say.

Take AP US History just because of her (not really), and help her throughout the year, not distract her and bring her grade down.

Ask her how her day was. She's not always going to ask how yours was, but ask her anyways. This shows your efforts for her.

Share bible verses with her, that you took interest in. She will too. Encourage her to dig into God's Word, and she will too.

Read the books, I Kissed Dating Goodbye, and Boy Meets Girl.

Pray for her, every night. With sincerity, not routinely.

God will give you so much opportunities with this girl.

It's your choice on what to do with them.

I hope that you decide well, out of love for her.

Always trust and obey God first. Wherever God plants you, listen to him, and grow there. Even if that requires letting go of her.

There's much more I have to say, but I'm of limited time. And I can't put it all in words right now. But yeah, I hope you love her unconditionally, it's easier said than done. Seek God if you don't know how. And the rest will be given to you. (:

- Tim